Wheelie Out There: July 2022

In the last four weeks Mab has backed up and parked our trailer rig (20-foot van + 16-foot trailer) completely by herself five times now. It's really an accomplishment, and a hard-won and incredibly useful skill that she gutted her way through until she learned. If you've never had the pleasure: small trailers jackknife and go off in any old direction they decide, usually the opposite of what the newbie driver is aiming for - just because. 'Backing up' is the number 1 cause of arguments between couples who camp:

Go left.

I am.

No, my left, the other way.

Like this?

No, the other left.

I am turning left!

Right, left!

I am!

You're going right, right, right. Stop!

Argh! (Cuffs the steering wheel, puts it in Drive to start all over again.)

So it went. Our trailer is stubborn, but here was a case of stubborn versus stubborn, and no one's stubborner than Mab. It took a lot of time but she wore that ornery trailer down. She hung with it and never accepted help: she insisted on doing it herself, no matter how many attempts it took, no matter how many sour faces from other drivers who had to wait a minute. (Truly, most have been completely gracious about it.) She gratefully accepts help in the form of directions, and there is a whole country of helpful ace drivers in campgrounds everywhere. But no matter how impossible the space is (most are reasonable, but there have been a dozen or so complete headaches), she will never hand over the steering wheel. Leggo my Eggo. And now, after almost three years, Mab's got skills! After a few back-and-forths, she's in that space. What a champ. That's what kind of travel partner I've got. She keeps the whole train running.

Look, Mab: stairs!

RV travel isn't really easy, at least not for us. There's more work than simply checking in and checking out, especially when one person is doing it all. While she is going through the list of tasks for making camp or breaking camp, I am hovering around like a gadfly, a second set of eyes for safety or to see that nothing is forgotten, that windows and latches are in fact closed… all of the little detail things that could come back to bite us. It's not much, but I do catch things. A guy's got to earn his seat on the ship, right? But in spite of that, she loves traveling this way and wants to keep going. We both do. It is seeing the country from an angle we never have before.

Onward. Can't wait to see her skills three years from now.

Pictures: Boulder Campground Carlyle Lake, 801 Lake Rd, Carlyle, IL, (618) 226-3586 – off of I-55, about 50 miles east of St. Louis. This is a Army Corps of Engineers campground. They are required to provide public facilities like campgrounds with their projects, and these are really worth seeking out! We started looking for them about a year ago and every single one has been ship-shape: clean and well-maintained, with ADA sites that have typically spacious, level concrete pads and look pristine. And cheap! With a senior discount, it's often less than $10 a night. The ones we go to are all on lakes or rivers – like, right on the shore, because usually there's plenty of availability. They are the best-kept secret. Find an area you want to visit and then search for a COE campground nearby, either through Google or Recreation.gov.

Boulder Campground site 53 is a good example of what you'll find at COEs: electric, a super-wide concrete pad that in this case required all of our leveling blocks, which is unusual because most COEs are level. But lush greenery all around, without absolute privacy but plenty of space in between campsites, and of course facing the largest man-made lake in Illinois directly behind us, with sailboats gliding in and out all day long. Total cost of $36 for four nights. You have to fill up water at a public spigot on the way in, and there's a dump station on the way out. Verizon and T-Mobile were four bars. (Unfortunately another lovely COE on I-55, Moraine View State Recreation Area in Leroy, IL, did not rate in spite of its awesome accessible trail through a wooded island, because the Verizon signal was 1 bar and unable to sustain an Internet connection and that's a safety issue for us. T-Mobile was 4 bars. But I increasing suspect that the iPhone I just purchased is not a reliable hotspot for us. We never had these problems with my old $20 Android. How disappointing.)