Friday, October 16, 2020

This Year, Everybody in: Abilities Expo Virtual Experience Nov. 20-22

Great news - like everything else this year, the Abilities Expo will be online. You, you, you and you are all going!

Whether you're in the market for equipment or not, whether you have money or not, going to the Abilities Expo is a good idea for people with disabilities and their families. You're seeing some of the latest tech available on the market. Service organizations come out to show you what's out there to take advantage of. There are excellent and fun presentations by experts and entertainers alike. And tons of people with disabilities and their families to see, to meet, to swap ideas and numbers with. I come away with new ideas to talk out, new numbers to call, new websites to check out, new friends to email, brand new energy.

Of course you got to get their first. Sometimes that's a hassle or an impossibility. The Abilities Expo only takes place in six cities every year. Good for the folks near those cities, right, but what about the rest? And of course Covid wiped out the in-person Abilities Expos earlier in the year, all canceled.

Well the great news is that the circumstances leveled the playing field for everyone, and the Abilities Expo goes completely online from Nov. 20-22. Everybody can attend, for free. All the exhibitioners, service orgs, presentations (Tony-winner Ali Stroker!), all waiting for us to visit in our jammies.

Good on ya, organizers!

I already said Free free free, but first you gotta register.

November 20-22, 2020

Online Globally

Accessible 24 hours a day starting Friday, 9 am PST.

Friday, October 9, 2020

Cedar Hills State Park: the Forest by the City ... n ANTS!

1570 West FM 1382, Cedar Hill, TX (18 mi. from downtown Dallas)

972-291-3900, Cust serv: 512-389-8900, Website

Site 124, Loop H

Woods and lake 20 min. from downtown

Upfront, this park is overrun by invasive Argentina ants. They are small, an eighth of an inch, and seemed pretty harmless, although Texas Parks and Wildlife warns they could mess with your electrical system. TPW is upfront about them and gives guidance how to protect you and your vehicles.

Not this kind of ant

The ant hordes are for real! We brought along insecticide. Mab sprayed down all contact points with the ground (wheels, jacks, connections and the undercarriage). She did this a couple of times. So we did everything TPW said to do. Yet by evening, we were overrun. It turns out the heavy afternoon rainshower had washed the bug spray off of the water hose and electrical hookup (we were preoccupied with a different drama: a broken skylight cover leaking) and the ants seized their opportunity.

Exhausted, we kept it together for the night. Once we left, a day of spraying knocked out 99 percent of them. So, whew, it was a happy ending.

Lesson learned: take the warnings seriously (we did) and remember to respray after rainstorms. TPW ought to plainly state that. Writing the letter now.

Still here? Here is the rest of my writeup, pre-ant:

        The first stop on our trip.

We got out hours before Hurricane Laura: one of its rain bands had already reached up to us from 400 miles away. A few hours later, we pulled into Cedar Hills Park on another Texas scorcher, 110° heat index. Just being in a state park at least puts your mind in a cooler state. True to the name, lush cedar trees are everywhere, one of my favorites. Red and gold sunsets over the lake were visible from our trailer. Also Jupiter passing above the moon. There are five hiking trails here, of all skill levels. One is an easy two-thirds of a mile, described as family-friendly, that I never got to check out. Busy guy.




Site 124, Loop H, is an ADA site 50 feet deep, level concrete, and plenty wide for clearance all around. Electric, water. Dump station in the park. Verizon and T-Mobile good signals. At the back, privacy and a covered picnic table that's wheelchair accessible. Fire pit. Lots of space between sites. Steep drop-offs from one side of the pad. At the front, a crack across one side of the pad could be a problem for some wheelchairs, and same for a slight lip where the pad joins the trail road. Bathrooms and showers right next door. 



Mab's hikes campgroup

Lakeshore (inaccessible)


Throughout this trip I kept thinking about my grandparents. I was seeing things they never did. As refugees they saw plenty of Europe, but mostly stayed put where they settled in the American Midwest. One of my grandfathers visited the Pacific Northwest. Decades later we bought him a monkey puzzle tree like he saw there, and he planted it in Michigan. My grandmother went with us on a fantastic roadtrip to Arizona. But most likely they didn't see any of what I was seeing. I look through their eyes, and they see through mine. I have their DNA after all, and some of their inherited consciousness and sensibility. It's their grit and vision that got me here, after all. So I am seeing for them, with them. I like it that way better. We all would enjoy this trip.

Nearby flight museum crammed with planes, Frontiers of Flight

and messylicious vegan eats, Spiral Diner